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Fathers often feel disadvantaged in custody and family law proceedings. But Georgia law recognizes the importance of fathers in their children's lives. Here is what you need to know to protect your rights. Establish Legal Paternity or Legitimation First If you are an unmarried father, your first step is establishing a legal relationship with your child. Signing the birth certificate creates a financial obligation (child support) but does not grant custody rights. You must file for legitimation to gain the right to seek custody or visitation. Custody Is Not Automatically Given to Mothers Georgia law does not favor mothers over fathers. Courts evaluate custody based on the best interest of the child, considering both parents equally. An involved, caring father has just as much right to seek custody as the mother. Document Your Involvement If you are seeking custody or visitation, documentation is your best friend. Keep records of your time with your child, your financial contributions, school and medical appointments you have attended, and any communication with the other parent. Act Quickly If You Are Being Denied Access If the other parent is denying you access to your child without a court order, do not wait. Consult with an attorney immediately. Taking action early demonstrates your commitment and protects your parental relationship.

Young parents often believe estate planning is something to think about 'later.' But if you have children, later may be too late. Here is why young families need estate plans now. Who Will Care for Your Children?  If both parents die without a will designating a guardian, a court will decide who raises your children — and their decision may not match your wishes. Naming a guardian in your will is one of the most important things you can do as a parent. Protecting Your Assets for Your Children Minor children cannot legally inherit property directly. Without a trust or other planning, assets left to a child may be managed by a court-appointed conservator until the child turns 18 — at which point they receive everything at once, with no guidance on how to manage it. Life Insurance and Beneficiary Designations Estate planning is not just about documents. Reviewing your life insurance beneficiaries, retirement account designations, and bank accounts is equally important. These assets pass outside of your will, so it is crucial that they are coordinated with your overall plan. Start Simple, Then Build You do not need a complex estate plan to get started. A basic will, durable power of attorney, and healthcare directive can provide significant protection. As your family and assets grow, your plan can grow with you.